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和谁在一起的确很重要  

2012-10-28 17:54:10|  分类: 人生感悟 |  标签: |举报 |字号 订阅

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和谁在一起的确很重要

  在现实生活中,你和谁在一起的确很重要,甚至能改变你的成长轨迹,决定你的人生成败。


和什么样的人在一起,就会有什么样的人生。和勤奋的人在一起,你不会懒惰;和积极的人在一起,你不会消沉;与智者同行,你会不同凡响;与高人为伍,你能登上巅峰。
科学家研究认为:“人是唯一能接受暗示的动物。”积极的暗示,会对人的情绪和生理状态产生良好的影响,激发人的内在潜能,发挥人的超常水平,使人进取,催人奋进。远离消极的的人吧!否则,他们会在不知不觉中偷走你的梦想,使你渐渐颓废,变得平庸。
积极的人像太阳,照到哪里哪里亮;消极的人像月亮,初一十五不一样。态度决定一切。有什么态度,就有什么样的未来;性格决定命运。有怎样的性格,就有怎样的人生

有人说,人生有三大幸运:上学时遇到好老师,工作时遇到一位好师傅,成家时遇到一个好伴侣。有时他们一个甜美的笑容,一句温馨的问候,就能使你的人生与众不同,光彩照人。
生活中最不幸的是:由于你身边缺乏积极进取的人,缺少远见卓识的人,使你的人生变得平平庸庸,黯然失色。
有句话说得好,你是谁并不重要,重要的是你和谁在一起。古有“孟母三迁”,足以说明和谁在一起的确很重要。雄鹰在鸡窝里长大,就会失落去飞翔的本领,怎能博击长空,翱翔蓝天?野狼在羊群里成长,也会“爱上羊”而丧失狼性,怎能叱咤风云,驰骋大地?

原本你很优秀,由于周围那些消极的人影响了你,使你缺乏向上的压力,丧失前进的动力而变得俗不可耐,如此平庸。不是有这样的观念吗?大多数人带着未演奏的乐曲走进了坟墓。

如果你想像雄鹰一样翱翔天空,那你就要和群鹰一起飞翔,而不要与燕为伍;如果你想像野狼一样驰骋大地,那就要和野狼群一起奔跑,而不能与鹿羊同行;正所谓“画眉麻雀不同嗓,金鸡乌鸦不同窝。”这也许就是潜移默化的力量和耳濡目染的作用。如果你想聪明,那你就要和聪明的人在一起,你才会更加睿智;如果你想优秀,那你就要和优秀的人在一起,你才会出类拔萃。

读好书,交高人,乃人生两大幸事。一个人的身份的高低,是由他周围围的朋友决定的。朋友越多,意味着你的价值越高,对你的事业帮助越大。朋友是你一生不可缺的宝贵财富。因为朋友的激励和相助,你才会战无不胜,一往无前。人生的奥妙之处就在于与人相处,携手同行。生活美好之处则在于送人玫瑰,手留余香。

人生就是这样。想和聪明的人在一起,你就得聪明;想和优秀的人在一起,你就得优秀。善于发现别人的优点,并把它转化成自己的长处,你就会成为聪明人;善于把握人生的机遇,并把它转化成自己的机遇,你就会成为优秀者。对他人的成功像对待自己成功一样充满热情。学最好的别人,做最好的自己。借人之智,成就自己,此乃成功之道。
和不一样的人在一起,就会有不一样的人生爱情婚姻如此,家庭、事业也如此。

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